Monthly Archives: October 2014

Why Projects Fail and How to Fix Them!

successful people

Completing projects on time and on budget can be very challenging. People can be the biggest roadblock to a successful project. I’ll talk about how to deal with people in this video. Last week I met a network architect engineer who is in charge of a large project for a division of a multinational and we chatted about managing people and projects over dinner. He said that the biggest challenge to delivering projects on time and on budget was people. I agreed with him and explained that the solution is getting people to respect their commitments and agreements. In fact this is also the foundation of building trust and without trust you cannot have teamwork. Teamwork is essential to solve problems that affect multiple people and cross departments. Otherwise people just wait for the problem to be solved and thus do not assume responsibility to be part of the solution. Getting people to keep their commitments requires these elements to be put in place by all managers. I say all managers because these management practices will form the culture of the company, so it needs to start from the top.

  1. People need to understand that when they make a commitment they are actually forming an agreement. Sometimes these agreements need to be put in writing in order to drive accountability.
  2. People need to know how to respond and communicate when they cannot keep their commitments or agreements. Other people are usually dependant on them and need to be informed ahead of time if something is not being done as scheduled. Otherwise conflicts can arise as well as a breakdown in trust.
  3. People need to learn how to confront each other when agreements are not being met. People often fall into the trap of who’s to blame when things don’t get done as expected. This can be very destructive for workplace relationships and trigger mistrust and conflicts.

How do leaders and managers create a culture where people understand the importance of keeping agreements? Leaders and managers must first walk the talk themselves. They must demonstrate what is expected from everyone in the organization. This makes it much more credible when people are asked to behave the same way. Leaders and managers must coach their employees on keeping their commitments and forming written agreements for larger scale activities or problems. Follow-up and reinforcement along with feedback will cement the correct behaviors. Training and development to raise people’s awareness of the notion of personal responsibility and accountability is always a good thing to form the foundation for developing a responsible attitude and organizational culture. Training and Management

How to Develop a Winning Attitude in Yourself


How to Deal with a Win-Lose Situation

The other day a friend was telling me about someone in a win lose situation and how it was taking a toll on this person.

We often find ourselves in situations that we find difficult or cause us to become demotivated and frustrated.

Employees often find things that they would like to change, but feel powerless to do so. Unresolved issues can amplify over time and affect motivation and performance.

Leaders may be unhappy with an employee’s performance and complain about it, rather than dealing with it proactively.

Here’s what winners do when they don’t like a situation.

Win-Lose Situation
  1. They do everything they can to positively change the situation without becoming manipulative.
  2. They accept the situation as it is and do not resort to complaining or blaming others.
  3. They get out of the situation. They leave their job or they terminate the employee if they are the boss.

The next time you’re faced with a situation you don’t like ask yourself what can I do to change this? If that doesn’t work, try something else. And if that doesn’t work, try something else again until you’ve exhausted everything you can do to change it.

If the above doesn’t work and you don’t want to leave, accept things the way they are and focus on the positive. Do your job without blaming and complaining.

If you cannot live with the situation the way it is, then you must get out of it.  Otherwise you could do damage to yourself and your relationships. Make the decision to move on.

For leaders, your job is to teach this type of attitude to employees by walking the talk. Be an example of a winner!