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How to Deal Effectively with Employee Complaints

It is important to deal effectively with employee complaints otherwise you can make matters worse and cause the employee to feel even more discouragement or anger.


If an employee comes to you with a complaint it could be a sign that they feel comfortable with you to bring you their grievance. Otherwise they might just start spreading negativity amongst the other employees. This gives you a chance to deal with the complaint and avoid any negative consequences.


In most cases the employee is upset with someone or something and at first, they just need to air out their feelings. As a leader you need to give them the space to do that and just hear them out without judgement. Just acknowledge that they are upset, and you are there to listen and provide support to work things out.


Many leaders and managers like to take charge of people and situations and are good at solving problems and telling people what to do. So, it would be easy to do just that when an employee comes with a complaint. But in most cases, this is not what the employee wants. They just need to be listened to and feel understood.


Once you respond with listening and understanding you can then move into problem solving mode and deal with the complaint. If you start telling them what to do right away, they may think you are not taking them seriously and don’t care about how they feel. This can cause further stress and be demotivating.


You may feel that the complaint is groundless, and the employee is being irrational and that may be the case. But you still need to let the person voice their complaint and how they feel without judging them or telling them their wrong. Listen, show you understand and then give your perspective.


Of course, if the employee is just being manipulative or revengeful this might constitute a more direct response as you do not want to encourage that behaviour. I have other articles and videos on active listening and employee confrontation that you can consult for more in depth explanations.


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Try This Brain Hack Researches Say Will Improve Action on Your Goals

When you set a goal for change or improvement you intend to act on it but don’t always succeed. In my last article and video achieving your New Year goal or resolutions I talked about using mutual coaching to stay accountable to your commitment.


From that someone sent me a link to an article about a brain hack or technique that is being studied at the Ottawa Hospital Research Institute with promising results.


The researchers suggested using the if/then technique to trigger a jolt in the brain at an appropriate time.


Suppose your goal is to eat healthier foods for reducing weight and that means less fat and sugar. You are at a family get together and are offered a second piece of cake that you would normally gladly accept. Using the if/then technique you would say to yourself “if I eat that cake, then I’ll gain back the few pounds I just loss and feel bad about myself”.


This could also work for a behaviour change in leadership such as giving less negative feedback and more positive. You could say “If I tell that person how they performed badly then they will feel de-motivated and may eventually want to leave”. Or “if I tell that person how well they performed that task, then they will be happy with themselves and feel appreciated.”


Combining this technique with my suggestion to write down your goals and use mutual coaching will give you fantastic tools to hack your brain and act on your goals.


The one thing the researches point out is that the technique only works if you are motivated by the goal. That is why in my goal planning form there is a section for writing down the benefits of achieving the goal. You need to come up with at least five benefits for the goal to be considered motivating enough.Download my free goal planning worksheet or follow my goals training on Eloquens.  This course is on sale until January 31, 2020 for half-price with coupon SETGOALS2020 


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