Monthly Archives: April 2021

retaining your best performers

Retaining Your Best Performers Should Be a Top Priority for Every Business Owner and Leader

Just recently I was speaking with the employee of a client company. She has been there for more than 20 years and she told me that she almost left the company. In fact, she had handed in her resignation and the boss convinced her to stay.


It seemed that she had become dissatisfied with her pay structure and vacation time that were both frozen because she had reached the maximum for her job function. She felt she was not progressing, and the job had become less interesting.


She was head hunted and offered a better position with superior pay. The boss convinced her to stay but it cost the company more than it should have if they had practiced the preventative approach I recommend.


Practice Prevention

The best way to prevent this happening to you and your company is to meet regularly with your employees and have a conversation about their job experience and satisfaction. Now of course you do this with people that report directly to you.


I call this a coaching conversation as you want to get the pulse of your employees and find out how they are feeling about the job. So, it’s not a time to really talk about what they’re working on or how they’re doing even though that might enter into the conversation. But you want to talk about them as a person and ask how they are feeling about their job.


I usually start these conversations with questions like; tell me about what is going well in the job and then what’s going not so well? It is really about their experience at work. What are they happy with, what are they not so happy with so I can get a feeling of how they see their work, how they feel about their satisfaction with the company, with the job, their engagement and work relationships. Then if there are issues that come up that I feel need to be addressed, we can discuss them. This way, the employee feels that you care about them, that you are taking interest in their career and in their job satisfaction.


Coaching Conversations versus Surveys

Many companies use surveys to get the pulse of people’s perception of their job satisfaction but taking the time to have a face-to-face conversation is a much richer and human approach.


Having that one-on-one conversation will make people feel that they are valued that you care about them, that you’re treating them as a human. It will create a bond and build trust with them.


This way if they get approached by a recruiter, they will have more of a tendency to come and see you and let you know that they are being offered something better.


When an employee values their relationships at work both with their boss and coworkers, that is something they would be reluctant to leave. There is a risk that they may lose that when moving to another firm where they do not know what things are like.


In the example I gave the company decided to offer a promotion to a team leader role that provides more pay and benefits. But this was done more as a reaction than a planned approach.


Giving a promotion just to retain a good performing employee is not always feasible and suggested. There are other ways to increase an employee’s engagement such as providing more interesting work and paying a bonus based on performance.


Cost of Hiring

After speaking with this employee, I also spoke to a HR manager of another company about the cost of turnover. She said finding qualified skilled people is exceedingly difficult these days and it takes a lot of time and money to go through the process. Furthermore, training new staff to adapt to your way of functioning also can be awfully expensive.


The Bottom Line

You can either put out fires or practice prevention, meaning start having regular conversations with employees about their work experience. Keep these conversations focused on them and look for signs that might tell you their satisfaction and engagement with the job is faltering. Speak to them about it and find ways to help them stay engaged.


responsible versus accountable employees

Responsible versus Accountable Employees, which is Better?

As businesses grow from start-up to mature organizations, they institute systems and structures to make sure that things are well managed. This also means hiring experienced managers to run departments.


I had a client who was the director of finance and HR and she often saw that people were not held accountable by the managers. She would often use the expression that people needed to be taken to task. This may be an outdated expression but there are still managers who think and function that way.


I remembered this when I was thinking about the relationship between responsibility and accountability. This is because I am working on a new online training program on performance  management and thinking of how to explain what the benefits of the program are.


I realized that leaders do not want to supervise their employees and be checking to see if they are doing the work properly and timely. What they want is for people to take full responsibility and hold themselves accountable.


To get to that level where everyone is taking full responsibility and being accountable takes work. And the work needs to be done by everyone, not just the leader and managers.


When I say have employees be fully responsible I mean that they function at the highest level that a human being can reach. I covered this in a recent article and video about the levels of growth and how fear plays a big part in how we function.


To perform most of the time at the responsible level requires self-awareness and personal development. An important role of the leader is to continuously provide the means for people to grow and develop themselves to function at the responsible level. Below is a list of qualities of people who function at the responsible level in the various dimensions of life. You can download the complete form and worksheet from my website.


responsible versus accountable employees

good health is vital

Good Health is Vital for Leaders to Perform at Their Highest Potential

Leaders need to be healthy to perform at their optimum and handle the stress of leading an organization or department. Achieving peak health is accessible to everyone who understands what it means and what to-do to achieve it.


In this video interview with naturopath Frances Michaelson we discuss health, and she clarifies what one needs to do to improve their current state and practice optimal health and prevention.


Frances has published two books, her first “Let’s Practise Health, Learn why YOUR GUT is the CEO of YOUR HEALTH” and her just released “DO YOU HAVE THE GUTS TO BE HEALTHY” are packed with great practical information. Both can be ordered through her website.


ups and downs

Making Life an Enjoyable Journey How to Ride the Ups and Downs

Life is sometimes a bumpy ride, full of ups and downs. This can cause a less than enjoyable experience. Yet at one point we all realize that life has a beginning and an end, and it is precious, it can end at any time.


Last week I had a bad thing happen to me that caused a lot of anxiety and stress. I could not stop thinking about the situation and what I did to cause it. I wanted to find someone else to blame but the responsibility kept coming back to me.


I knew from experience that my misery would pass with time, but I also knew that if I kept focusing on what I did my suffering would be prolonged. I also realized that time heals everything if you let it and I knew I had to let go of the negative thoughts that were causing me to spiral down.


I remembered a talk by Prem Rawat who reminded me of the reality that I am alive and the reason I am experiencing everything I do, both the good and the bad is because I am alive. Life is a gift and yet is so fragile.


I realized that wasting my time torturing myself was useless and that life is really the only reality and the fact that I can feel and experience is the real miracle.


I remembered that inside of my is my true home, a refuge where I can go to heal and be. This place has always been there. It is who we are, our true being. It is also the source of peace and contentment. What I need and what we all need is to remind ourselves of this and have an anchor to bring us back to the feeling, that place.


An anchor is a way to secure us when our ship drifts, often without us realizing. It’s easy to let things outside of us spark our ups and downs. But the up experiences or elations at one point become downs if we make ourselves dependant on what is occurring in our lives. Everything can seem fine and then we get into a spat with a spouse or close friend and things can spiral downwards.


We all have a quiet place of joy and contentment inside of us. That is at the core of who we are. But as we grow up, we are conditioned to focus on everything else and forget that the place inside is our true being. All we need to do is reconnect with it.


Sitting quietly in a chair and letting go of thoughts and just feeling your breath is a simple way to get connected with your inner self. Some use various forms of meditation to do this. I have a practice I do every morning whenever I can. I learned this practice from Prem Rawat many years ago and ever since it has been the anchor in my life to get back home. To make the journey and experience of life a smooth and wonderful journey takes a recognition of the simple reality of being alive and remembering that no matter what you are experiencing is only possible because you have the gift of life.